迎合老板的烦恼
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> 迎合老板的爱好，不管能不能在职场中得益，至少，你跟老板就有共同话题，也能让老板记住你啊！电梯里碰到老板，也不会尴尬到挖空心思找话说。但过分迎合，可能也会给自己带来无尽的烦恼。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> 1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、老板爱上写诗，我怕半夜</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">机</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">叫</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">口述：小赵</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我的老板，年轻时做过工人。别说，我们老板还是特别有追求的人，那时候他就是个</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">文学青年</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，工余最喜欢写写弄弄，然后四处投稿，据说还真在报纸上发表过一些豆腐干，甚至还有散文和小小说。听他自己吹嘘，他当年还去过上海、北京，参加过一些文学杂志办的笔会，交了不少志同道合的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">笔友</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">老板后来自己办厂了，还办得挺成功。但空下来，他仍喜欢舞文弄墨，长篇小说是没功夫写，偶尔会写点小诗、小散文。我们企业虽然不算大，也弄了个厂报，老板的大作，偶尔就在厂报上露个脸。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">本来，这跟我们员工也没什么关系，这爱好也不太花钱，对企业来讲也没什么影响。可我正好是负责厂报编辑的，大学读的又是中文系，老板就把我当专家了，每次总要我对他的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">创作</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">提意见，尤其最近他迷上了写古诗。中国的古体诗有很复杂的格律，还有韵脚啦典故啦对仗的起承转合啦，总之麻烦得很，中文系毕业的我都没怎么弄清楚。老板毕竟没什么文学功底，写的那个基本只能叫打油诗。但是我总不能明说啊，只能以鼓励为主，那叫一个痛苦！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">更痛苦的是，经常半夜三更，老板诗兴大发，就会打电话把他新写的诗念给我听，让我</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">斧正</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。比如前两天，早上才四点多，天刚蒙蒙亮，老板又给我打电话：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小赵啊，我正在北山路上，看到小荷才露尖尖角，我太感动了，我写了首诗</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……”<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> 2</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、领导做媒上瘾，我被相亲困扰</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">口述：小杨</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">刚来工作不久，有一次下班前，领导就把我叫到办公室语重心长地探讨起了我的婚姻问题：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小杨啊，听说你还没有男朋友啊！你看你工作也稳定，人也漂亮，怎么还不谈朋友呢？可千万别把自己耽误了！我有个朋友的儿子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">本以为是一场意义深远的职场对话，没想到聊的却是这么私人的话题。那次的相亲，我硬着头皮去了，领导朋友的儿子确实如领导所说的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一表人才</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，但我就是不来电，我也不想让人以为我一心巴结领导，一顿饭一场电影之后也就没有了下文。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我本以为，这样一次不成功，估计领导也就死心了。没想到，我完全低估了领导在安排</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">相亲</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这件事上的热情度。这个不满意，就再换一个，第二个没感觉，就再介绍第三个，大有不成功决不罢手的架势。后来我发现，遭遇领导这特殊爱好的并不是我一个人。哪怕隔壁办公室的李大姐中年丧偶，领导也一而再再而三地热心为她牵线。据说，他手上还真促成过几桩好事，喝过几次谢媒酒，就此做媒做上了瘾</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">其实进公司不久，我就跟同事、一个阳光男孩互有好感，只是关系没发展到公开的地步</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">----</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">同在一家单位，我们也不想让大家瞧出来我们有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">感觉</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。就这样，进这个公司</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年不到，我应付了领导数不清的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">相亲</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">安排，还要为脱身找各种各样的理由</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">问题是，次数多了，领导对我的看法就变了，认为我挑剔、矫情等。我还从同事中听到闲言闲语：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">以为自己是谁啊，眼睛摆到额头上去了啊！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我真是有苦说不出啊。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> 3</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、领导很爱攀比，我得学会低调</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">口述：赵欢</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我喜欢追赶潮流，人送外号时尚达人，最新款的手机、限量版的包包、潮流的首饰</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">都是我追求的目标。还好，虽然工作很忙，毕竟赢得了丰厚的年薪作坚强后盾，每完成一个项目，我总是要拿出一笔置装费来犒劳自己。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">但是来了新领导之后，我的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">潮妞</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">之路不再一帆风顺了，我得学会低调，买了新东西也不能在办公室里勇敢</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">show</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">出来了。再美的裙子，再新款的鞋子，也得藏着掖着，不能被新来的领导看见。这一切都是因为新来的女领导，也是个潮流爱好者，还是个不折不扣的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">爱比较</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">爱比较</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在上任的第一天就发挥得淋漓尽致。那一天，为了给新来的领导留下一个好印象，我早上起床梳洗一番后，精心挑选了一套新买的宝姿</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，再配上了平日里最爱的香奈儿五号香水。但是我万万没想到的是，这位新来的女领导送给我的见面礼是这样一句话：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你用的是五号吧！我觉得不是很适合你！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">但是，第二天上班，女领导却带着一股强烈的五号香味走进办公室。之后，我只得把我的五号香水打入冷宫，生怕跟领导</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">撞香</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">除了</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">撞香</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，同办公室的李罗甚至在发现领导用的是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">IPHONE</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">后，将自己的手机也迅速下调一个档次，生怕跟领导</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">撞机</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。也是在那天新领导见面会上，李罗看见新领导用跟自己一样的手机，很是激动，本想套近乎。但是李罗的满腔热情立即被新领导的一盆冷水浇灭：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我这款用了很久了，是刚出来的时候，美国的朋友帮我带的。我都想换一个了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">于是在新领导没换手机之前，李罗先换了自己的手机。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">久而久之，我们办公室就有了这样一条不成文的规定：手机不准比领导好、衣服不能比领导贵、领导不买车你也别开车</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 4.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">很久没有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">撞香</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">撞机</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的事情发生了，直到有一天办公室新来了一个大学毕业生小刘。上班的第一天，小刘就受到了强烈的关注，但是比人更加受到关注的是小刘的包</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">----</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">某大牌的一款新包。开始，小刘不知道为什么领导看自己时眼神总好像怪怪的，过了几天熟悉了环境，有人私底下告诉了她领导这个</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">爱比较</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的怪癖。于是，同事们就再也没见小刘背过那包了。有一次闲聊时，我好奇地问小刘：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你那万元包，就再也不用了啊？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小刘扑哧一下子笑了，悄悄地告诉我：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">其实我那包是市场里买的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%"><FONT face="Times New Roman">A</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">货，也就几百块！</SPAN><FONT face="Times New Roman"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%">”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #333333; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: right" align=right><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">——文章来自韩增海</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><A href="http://www.boke28.com/Expert/Expert_11354_yes.html"><FONT face="Times New Roman" color=#43609c>http://www.boke28.com/Expert/Expert_11354_yes.html</FONT></A></SPAN></P>
回复：迎合老板的烦恼
还好我没有碰到过这样的领导啊，真是雷人哦！
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