从《杜拉拉升职记》看职场生存
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT color=black size=5>从《杜拉拉升职记》看职场生存</FONT></SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">内容介绍：小说的主人公是典型的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><A href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/49896.htm" target=_blank><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; text-underline: none"><SPAN lang=EN-US>中产阶级</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">代表，她没有背景，受过较好的教育，靠个人奋斗获取成功。小说中拉拉在外企的经历跨度八年，拉拉从一个朴实的销售助理，成长为一个专业干练的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">HR</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">经理，见识了各种职场变迁，也历经了各种职场磨练。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=4>《杜拉拉升职记》能给我们提供哪些职场生存法则：</FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 60.75pt"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1、<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">职场生存法则之一：“人所欲，施于人”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 4.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">职场中需要一点智商（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">IQ</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">）、情商（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">EQ</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">）和逆商（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">AQ</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">），因为有许多人际关系需要你搞定。生活本来就是一张网，所谓人在职场，身不由己。在职场中，每个人都会处于一个人际关系的坐标中心。上下左右是你的上司、同事、下属或者有往来关系的客户。人际关系处理有这样几种类型――</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">A</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、己所欲，施于己；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">B</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、己所不欲，勿施于人；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">C</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、己所欲，施于人；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">D</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、人所欲，施于人。第一种是愚蠢的人，第二种人是一般人，第三种人是智慧的人，第四种人是成功的人。“人所欲，施于人”，考量的正是亘古不变的人性，了解了人性，这一辈子应该可以做点事情。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 60.75pt"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2、<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">职场生存法则之二：“好职位是熬出来的”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=4>企业忠诚度历来是一个问题。你也许能力不是最好的，但只要你能够比别人更有熬功，许多职场目标其实不难实现。许多陪伴老板一路走来的人，虽然资质不是最好的，但却身居高位，因为老板其实也需要世所罕见的忠诚。</FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 60.75pt"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT face="Times New Roman">3、<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">职场生存法则之三：“在企业内部建立自己的品牌”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=4>一个老板熟悉的人肯定比一个老板陌生的人更有职业机会。人毕竟是具有感性的动物，任人唯亲是一个贬义词，但不要奢望在企业中你的老板会任人唯疏。所以在企业中应该让尽量多的人特别是你的老板知道有你的存在，这样在公司有职位缺口的时候，你会比别人多一个机会。将所有人都看做是你的客户，你会发现自己原来是一支绩优股。</FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 60.75pt"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT face="Times New Roman">4、<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">职场生存法则之四：“到什么山唱什么歌”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=4>你如果不能改变环境，你就要学者去调整自己。哪家企业都会有一大堆问题，员工肯定有这样那样的抱怨。既然现在还在这座山上，你就要学会尽快融入环境。不要奢望在盐碱地里种庄家，也不要在没有找准支点的时候去撬动天平。别人不开心，你也没法开心。</FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">5</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、职场生存法则之五：“见鬼说鬼话”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 58.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -15.75pt; mso-para-margin-left: 4.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不要奢望企业里都是正人君子，也不要期望别人都会像兄弟姐妹一样关爱你。遇见君子用君子之道待之，遇见小鬼，不妨不鬼话连篇。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42.75pt"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、职场生存法则之六：“中庸之道”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 60.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=4>中庸也就是不走极端。在公司里找准自己的位置，不错位、不越位。淹死的都是会水的。即使你是精英，你也要看上去像披着羊皮的狼而不是披着狼皮的羊。当别人有不安全感的时候，你会发现倒霉的事儿会接踵而来。</FONT></SPAN></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">7</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、职场生存法则之七：“得意而不忘形”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 58.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -15.75pt; mso-para-margin-left: 4.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: -1.5"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有得意就有失意。冬天还没有到多给自己准备些棉袄总没错。当你快乐的时候，试着让别人也能分享快乐，大家会将你当作自己人；当你快乐别人都痛苦，你已经成为了大家的陌路人。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.07gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=4><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、职场生存法则之八：“有容乃大”。</SPAN></FONT></P><BR>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42.75pt; mso-para-margin-left: 4.07gd"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=4>一只小鸟正在飞往南方过冬的途中。天气太冷了，小鸟冻僵了，从天上掉下来，跌在一大片农田里。它躺在田里的时候，一只母牛走了过来，而且拉了一泡屎在它身上。冻僵的小鸟躺在牛屎堆里，发觉牛粪真是太温暖了。牛粪让它慢慢缓过劲儿来了！它躺在那儿，又暖和又开心，不久就开始高兴地唱起歌来了。一只路过的猫听到了小鸟的歌声，走过来查个究竟。顺着声音，猫发现了躲在牛粪中的小鸟，非常敏捷地将它刨了出来，并将它给吃了！所以说：不是每个在你身上拉屎的都是你的敌人，不是每个把你从屎堆中拉出来的都是你的朋友。</FONT></SPAN></P>
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