大学生求职，需要多几面镜子
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT color=black><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">时下，有很多刚毕业的大学生很难确定自己的职业方向。向阳生涯从最近来咨询的客户中了解到，有不少大学生在校时会去接受一些测评或是学校老师的咨询，有的学生大概知道自己喜欢做怎样的工作，但是他们所学的以及对自身的体验都是非职业的，所以他的兴趣很可能并不是职业兴趣。那大学生怎样才能把自身的优势、具备的能力素质在社会上找到一个对应，也就是说，自我怎么和职业选择联系起来？如何才能发现真实的自己，找到最适合自己的职位？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><FONT color=black><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">眼前这个叫张宇（化名）的男孩从进到向阳生涯的咨询室后就一直眉头紧锁，脸上的愁容就像上海近来的天气一样，灰蒙蒙、阴沉沉的。在向阳生涯资深</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划师</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">闫岭的引导下，他终于道出了自己的苦恼：我是今年的应届毕业生，在一所三流大学学习数控操作。在半年的实习期间，我已换了</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">家企业。开始怀着热情投入，后来感到厌烦无趣。在工厂时主要是操作机床，但我内心不甘，希望有更好的发展，想成为一个更有价值的人。在校时我作了有关</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">的测试，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">MBTI</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">INFJ</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">兴趣为研究型，现在又想去重新学计算机软件专业。大学时选择专业是在家长的建议下选择了数控机床操作，可我说不上喜欢与讨厌。现在不知道是找份专业对口的工作，还是该重新培养计算机软件的兴趣，我不想一而再再而三地做错误的决定，闫老师请帮帮我吧！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><FONT color=black><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">其实，七年来向阳生涯接待过成百上千位像张宇这样陷入迷茫的大学生。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">作为全国领先的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职<SPAN lang=EN-US>业</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">生涯管理专业服务商，向阳生涯做过一次名为“你是如何对自己开展</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">的”的调查，在随机采访的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">202</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">名大学生中，有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">14%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">的学生选择在学校，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">25%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">选择找专业的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">咨询机构，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">43%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">选择自己做</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">，还有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">18%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">的学生表示暂时没有做</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">的打算。通过向阳生涯多年来对职场的研究发现，那些毕业后求职快速发展顺利的大学生，往往在校时就对自己有着清晰的认识和准确的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; 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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><FONT color=black><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">针对张宇的现状，顶级就业力专家闫岭指出，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">学习始终是为了“用”。INTJ类型的人确实会很有想法，但光想不做或是做不来也是件挺麻烦的事。数控机床是社会很需要的专业，计算机专业也不错，既然前者已学了，后者又有兴趣，而这两者结合价值更大，那何不考虑先找个合适的企业把本专业工作做好，再利用业余时间学个计算机软件专业呢？听了闫老师的分析，张宇感到矛塞顿开，接下来该如何抉择已经十分清晰。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT color=black><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">中国</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">咨询元老，向阳生涯高级专家王一敏指出，大学生求职前，需要从多个角度来认识自己。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">选择的基础首先是自己，所以</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">选择的基础就是根据自身的情况来进行选择，不能盲目，也就是我们常说的自我理解，对自己要有一个清晰的认识。了解自我，应在中学的成长过程中就要不断对自己有所认识，到了大学就该较清晰了，因此到了大学找工作时再去理解自我就晚了，所以这也是为什么当下许多大学会在求职时感到迷茫的原因。像张宇这样专业已经定下来了，重新再去了解自己的兴趣方向，做第二次选择就必定绕了一些路，这也表明我国高校普遍缺乏大学生</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">教育。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT color=black><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">不管是大学生求职还是进行</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">咨询，首先要从多个不同的角度了解自己，就像梳完头后需要照镜子一样，多拿几面镜子从不同的角度来照自己才能看得更清楚。向阳生涯首席</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业规划师</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">洪向阳认为，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><A href="http://www.careercn.net/"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"><SPAN lang=EN-US>职业</SPAN></SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">教育，应从小学高年级开始，当人们不断地照镜子，就会形成一种生活习惯，也就能从各个不同角度来认识自己了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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