心灵大师海灵格－揭示令人震撼的真相(家庭系统排列)
<div class="Section0" style=""><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom: 8.7pt; margin-top: 8.7pt;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 15.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">心灵大师海灵格－揭示令人震撼的真相<font face="Times New Roman">(</font><font face="宋体">家庭系统排列</font><font face="Times New Roman">)</font></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格谈自由</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听海灵格谈自由，他说：人有一点点自由。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">他的言下之意，似乎那自由不是很多。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">“<font face="宋体">人有一点点什么自由呢？</font><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">他 说：<font face="Times New Roman">“</font><font face="宋体">改变的自由而已。</font><font face="Times New Roman">”</font><font face="宋体">接着，他拐弯了：</font></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">“<font face="宋体">但是，对于改变之后的结果呢，人们是不自由的。</font><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">他还慢条斯理地说：</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">“<font face="宋体">所谓的自由只 不过是臣服而已，</font><font face="Times New Roman">――</font><font face="宋体">一个人懂得臣服自己的命运，那会是最大的自由。很多人喜欢去追求，追求这个，追求那个，但到头来结果未必是好的，臣服就是不用去追 求，把结果是什么交给比你大的那个整体去做。</font><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论生命和死亡</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 每一个生命都要得到肯定和尊重。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 死亡是我们的 朋友。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 死亡是我们生命中最大的支持力量。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我们每天都向着死亡走去。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论爱与秩序</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 爱是秩序的一部分。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 秩序是早已被排定了的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 爱只可以在秩序的范围内成长。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 爱常常是有代价的，常常让人感到愧疚。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 爱只是一颗种子，并不 能改变土壤。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 悲剧中的英雄是盲目的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 人要回归秩序，面对真相。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论人生</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 人是有那么一点点自由。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 每个人都有资格决定他自己的人生。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 每个人都希望有更好的明天。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 要用全新的眼光去面对每个不同的情况。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 危机唯有到达 高峰时才能够解决。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 多愁善感守护着一种不为人知的幸福。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 人在幸福中会体验到危险与不安。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论伴侣关系</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 关 系其实也会经历从出生到死亡的过程。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 伴侣之间发生的事，别人绝对不能干涉。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 女人跟随男人，男人服务女人。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 每一种关系 会设下不同的界限。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 连结既是爱的奖赏，又是爱的代价。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论分手</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 不负责任地分手常常会带来破 坏性的后果。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 伴侣分手也许是必须的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 要么分手，要么强留，两种痛苦必选其一。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 伴侣分手往往是无可避免的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 在分手当中，愤怒通常是替代悲痛的工具。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 离婚是父母双方的事。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论父母和孩子</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 父母的关系不关孩子的事。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 父母和孩子的关系是不能分割的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 父母付出，孩子接受。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 你的父母有权插手你的人生。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 孩子们对父母的爱是无限的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 孩子要跟随父亲。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 荣耀自己的父亲。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 即使父母有罪过，他们仍然是父母。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 荣耀自己的父母便是荣耀大地。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 孩 子的心灵无法容忍任何对父母的贬抑。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 子女必须尊敬并且荣耀自己的父母。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论疾病</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 信念促成疾病，醒悟便得康复。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 疾病乃是拒绝荣耀自己父母的结果。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 疾病乃是企图为他人赎罪。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 和解比赎罪更好。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 癌症由恨生成，却远远地回避着爱。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 有时癌症是一种赎罪的形式。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 头痛的问题可能是来自被堵塞的爱。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 多数情绪的痛苦都是中断了的爱。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 心痛和头痛常常是堵 塞了的爱的一种表达。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论清白与罪恶</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 清白者往往是较危险的人。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 忠诚应以爱为出发点。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 愧疚和无愧并不等同 于善良和邪恶。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 清白与罪恶并不等同于善良和邪恶。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 清白者是不原谅人的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 如果某人正视他的罪恶感，便可获得力量。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 罪过是不可挽回，也不能补偿的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">扮演受害者的角色是一种高技巧的报复。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 赎罪是一种补偿行为。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 唯有 罪人才能够宽大仁慈。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 人世间的罪恶是会消逝的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论原谅与尊敬</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 人不能要求别人原谅。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 人没有权力去宽恕别人。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 慈悲需要勇气面对全部的伤痛。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 原谅其实是一种僭越。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我知道你所赐给我的，我十分敬重它。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 感恩之心便是不带傲慢的接受。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 尊敬必须来自内心深处。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 无聊的好奇心表示缺乏对他人的尊重。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论付出与接受</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我们付出的时候，就会决定有权利。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我们接受的时候，就会感到有义务。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 回报的责任，我会体验为罪恶。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 没有亏欠的压 力，我会感到轻松和自由。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 当他们要帮助你的时候，你要小心。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 带着爱从别人那儿接受的人是谦卑的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 吸入是接受，呼出是 付出。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 鞠躬也是一种付出。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 深深地吐气！那是一种让爱流动的方法。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 多一点爱意，少一点恐惧。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';">海灵格论问题与行 动</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 问题本身往往是解决的方法和动力。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 如果描述是正确的，问题应该早已解决。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 只要发生了，我们都要客观面对。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我们所犯的错误往往是最好的老师。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 每一个行为后面都有其正面动机。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 爱是一切行为后面的动力。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 事实往往与人们所说的 相反。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 所有的情绪都是帮助我们成长的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我们只有在必须行动之前才是自由的。</span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><br></span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 每个人都有力量面对他的难题。 </span><span style="font-size: 10.5pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><o:p></o:p></span></p></div>回复：心灵大师海灵格－揭示令人震撼的真相(家庭系统排列)
很有深意。以往只是了解海灵格是心理学家。将他的著作看作是心理学的著作。看了版主的摘录觉得很深刻，特别是与东方的佛学和禅修中很多精髓有神似之处。回复：心灵大师海灵格－揭示令人震撼的真相(家庭系统排列)
死亡是我们生命中最大的支持力量。我们每天都向着死亡走去。
多一点爱意，少一点恐惧。
每个人都有力量面对他的难题。
非常好的帖子！感谢清知斑竹分享！
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多看这些东西可以让自己升华。
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